Working mother of 3 asthmatic boys - two of whom are also on the autism spectrum - tries to make it all work, keep her monkeys healthy, and figure out the cause of (and solution to) the asthma and autism epidemics. Because being the working mother of 3 just wasn't ENOUGH work.
...and here's my thought on this: not only must you have a great relationship with your doctor, you also have to read everything. You can't only trust your doctor - s/he's not going to know everything. Take responsibility for taking care of yourself and/or your child and your treatment.